Why I Choose To Stay SIngle

My Name is Precious Igwe, I am a Business woman of 32 Years old. I am from Anambra state. I am single but not searching because of what a man did to my elder sister that made her loose her mind. Men are wicked and heartless. If i'm given a gun to shoot either a snake or the man, I will rather leave the snake and kill the man. Men are so cunning and outrageous lot of heinous act they have committed to people around me especially my elder sister has convinced me really that no man is worthy! My sister was on her own pursuing her career and life so that she too can be great before marrying instead of being a liability to a man.

 she graduated from
Imo state university and presently have a supermarket of her own where she sells
all sort of things one should expect in a grocery. God blessed her so much,that is wealthy, she has a house and two cars. When she was in school she had a boyfriend that she was dating, this guy proposed to her when they graduated but they didn't marry because they thought of hustling for money to sustain their marraige. This guy works in a bank and receive salary while my sister is a business woman as I have said earlier. He earns cool cash ,lives in a well furnished apartment and also have a car. Both families have met during their introduction. We were only waiting for the wedding date to be fixed.Their love was the type to be envied.  They lived in perfect understanding and sincere love that was visible to all..

Finally the date was fixed,preparations were going smootly. The Aso Ebi, Wedding Gown and suit have been purchased.Everything was set for 18th July 2017. My sister was suppose to restore her goods at the supermarket but she decided to hold on until after the wedding.so,she gave the money to her husband,so he could help her save it in the bank for her without any doubt or fear of elapsing with the money.The man accepted to save it for her.
The money was quite huge about 10.5million,This is the Highest money my sister has ever saved with the man(fiance)and the man does exactly he ought to so this didn't occur to my sister that anything bad could happen to the money.

On Thursday, 7 days to the wedding day,my sister met with the husband to be to enusure preparations were well set on his side. After that he departed and the man came to our house the next day which is on friday,bachelor's eve.With so much euthusiastic,the atmosphere was really fun.My sister also had her bridal shower. Caterers were already frying some food and preparing some other things. The event planner were at the venue beautifying the place. After so much fun the husband to be and friends left for their bachelor's eve. He and my sister parted ways happily that night and joyfully waiting to be cling as husband and wife the next morning.
Finally,the day of the wedding arrived and my sister was fully prepared, her face has been beautified by the makeup artiste, she has worn her dress,so she decided to call her man while she was going into the car to be driven to the church.

Her man didnt pick,she tought he was busy prepairing to go to church so she just smiled concentrated on her bridal train. I was her best lady,so we chatted ,and gave her advice on how she should behave in her new home. There was no much to say as she and her husband to be have been together for 8 years,so we assumed they were used to each other and their won't be problem.we arrived at the church, guest, relative and pastor were waiting for the man arrival.it was already 12 noon the man hadn't arrive, my sister was really worried, her mindset was that they might be involved in an accident, he called the man phone, no responce.

she called all his friend no responce,around 1:30pm while we were till in the church,one of the man friend (groom men) came to the church to ask for the husband, we looked at him in anger wondering what kind of game it was, he said he went to the house and couldn't find him .no sooner that he came in to the church hall, then the rest of the groom men came in without the husband.they said the same thing the man said but included that they couldn't find any of his properties in the house and that the landlord said he had told him earlier that he will be relocating, he didn't inform his friend and wife to be about this. it was then we went to the people who he claimed were his relative. those one said,they only knew him as friend.none of the relative present on the wedding day were truly his relative. my sister fainted immediately. for one month she didn't open her eyes ,she later opened her eyes butdeveloped (amneia)mental illness. To cut the long story my sister is still having mental issues we hope she get better soon . Her life was totally chattered with this experience, will I ever want to have anything to do with any man? No! Men are covetous and coward!