SEE WHAT MY MUM DID WITH MY BLIND DAD

My name is Tobiloba Ogunsanmi. I am 13 years old. I live in Bashorun street,Igbogbo,Ikorodu with my father. My father is blind,according to him, he said he had a sickness which led to his blindness some years before I was born, at that time,he was married to my mum. After 5 years of the incident they had me. My mother is not blind,she helped my father so many times. she cater for some of the responsibilities in the house. My father used to work in a private company as an architect before he lost his sight.                                         

Thank God for the help of our church pastor and members who helped us till date. After my parent had me,I was 2 years old when my mum left home and didn't come back,I was still a baby then,I
didn't recognize my mum, life was quite difficult for my father and I,there was no one to help dad in the house,I had to take him round to do anything.I asked my father what transpired between him and mum,he said they didn't quarrel or have any argument. He said she only left that morning to go to her shop far back in the year 2006 and he didn't return home since then. Our church member helped search for her by going to the police station to report and they prayed so hard but all proved abortive. I am really disturbed,life is difficult for me, I repeated thrice due to my absence in school to be with my father,if I don't,who will watch after my father,who will provide food for us to eat?

 My grandparent (paternal and maternal) live in the village, as I was told,my mum hail from Ilorin while my dad is from Ekiti. We tried reaching families in the village through some traveling buses but there was no positive response. Neighbor and church members suggested that I live with one of our church member so that I could concentrate on my studies. My father succumbed,he lived alone in the house,our neighbours helped him sometime since I was not around. While in the member's house,they didn't allow me concentrate with my studies as promised instead they use me as an errand girl. I left there and decided to go back to my father. If we can just work things out on our own. I am currently living with my father at Bashorun, Igbogbo as I have earlier said.

Please help me find my mother, I can't even recognize her if I see her. I am not sure if my dad can also recognize me except if he smells or touch my body or when he hears my voice. This suffering is too much,please PeopleAroundLagos ,help me find my mother,tell her to come back home,I really miss her and love her though I dont know her. My dad needs her and I need her more. I am tired of going to ask for food and other stuff from my church pastor and some members. Though every month they give us 4 derica of rice, garri and beans. some members give my dad and I clothes to wear. I am really tired of that kind of life. Please am going through pain and lot of molestation from people around me. my rape  story  is for another day. I think with her things will be less difficult. It is important that I know her please!!