I Am Single At 35 Am I Caused Or Blessing In Disguise

My name is Linda Lawrence Abuchi I base here in Lagos; I was born and brought up here though, presently At 35, I'm very content with being single. Sounds weird I guess; well I sometimes think something is wrong with me that I'm not 'out there' looking for a partner. You don’t want to know what and what I have done to this extent just to have a partner. So much energy is put into looking: online dating, matchmaking services, singles parties. I've decided to focus my attention on my passions and hobbies like writing,                                            

Travelling, watching comedies, volunteering, reading the Classics.  Of course, I do get so lonely sometimes but that's human nature. I also think it's all about timing. Thanks peopleAroundLagos for showing this maybe with this I can get a partner for myself.  I need to
work on my feeling words “everybody sees that I am a girl ", lol maybe it's because you know I am a Lady, biologically. And the only way to change that is thru surgery.

 I might be 

Uncomfortable with myself, but it doesn't mean everyone in the world should Accommodate. It's not discrimination, it's not sexism, and it’s not bigotry. In confidence I can say am pretty, but I don’t understand; I think I have given up right now maybe I will just adopt some kids lets say 2 or 3 and live my beautiful life, and mind you I can get pregnant and have a child but I don’t want to that out of wedlock but since this search is becoming unfruitful I will just stick to my plan which I aforementioned.

But, you that single guy reading this;  it could be you so beep me. lolls I am feeling nasty saying all these and it’s causing me much pain. I was happy initially but talking too much about it is making me have lips ache, well I will say thank you for giving your time to read this. Thank you people around Lagos and mind you guys the readers I mean;  if you have any suggestions kindly drop I did like to see them so am looking forward because my eyes are here I mean here to see your comments!  Thanks